Jean Stapleton | 1923-2024: Actress wasn’t defined by the role of Edith Bunker

NEW YORK — The world has lost an iconic actress who brought warmth, humor, and depth to one of television’s most beloved characters. Jean Stapleton, the stage-trained actress best known for her role as Edith Bunker in the groundbreaking 1970s sitcom All in the Family, passed away at the age of 90. Surrounded by family and friends, Stapleton died of natural causes at her New York home on Friday, as confirmed by her children.

Before All in the Family, Stapleton was relatively unknown to the public. However, her portrayal of Edith, the sweetly naive yet endearingly compassionate wife of Archie Bunker, played by Carroll O’Connor, cemented her place in television history. The show, created by Norman Lear, was a top-rated CBS sitcom that broke new ground with its candid social and political commentary. Edith, often referred to by Archie as “Dingbat,” along with their daughter Gloria (Sally Struthers) and liberal son-in-law Mike “Meathead” (Rob Reiner), became household names.

During her eight-year tenure on All in the Family, Stapleton’s exceptional performance earned her eight Emmy nominations and three wins. The show itself was a critical and commercial success, holding the top spot in the ratings for five consecutive years, a record at the time. Stapleton’s talent wasn’t confined to the small screen; she also received Emmy nominations for her portrayal of Eleanor Roosevelt in the 1982 film Eleanor, First Lady of the World and for a guest appearance on Grace Under Fire in 1995.

Stapleton’s film career included memorable roles in Nora Ephron’s You’ve Got Mail (1998) and Michael (1996), starring alongside Tom Hanks, Meg Ryan, and John Travolta. Interestingly, she turned down the lead role in another popular TV series, Murder, She Wrote, which later became a showcase for Angela Lansbury.

Despite her television success, the theater was Stapleton’s first love. She began her stage career in 1941 and moved to Broadway in the 1950s and 1960s. Her notable Broadway roles included Mrs. Strakosh in Funny Girl with Barbra Streisand, as well as performances in Bells Are Ringing, Rhinoceros, and Damn Yankees. It was her work in these productions, particularly her performance in Damn Yankees, that caught Norman Lear’s attention and led to her casting as Edith.

Edith Bunker was characterized by her cheerful, high-pitched voice, and unyielding family loyalty. Although Edith appeared submissive, Stapleton brought out her character’s honesty and compassion, often pricking Archie’s inflated ego with her simple truths. Stapleton once described Edith as naive and uneducated, a reflection of many women restricted to their homes during that era. Despite this, Edith’s character grew over the series, facing serious issues like breast cancer and menopause with resilience and grace.

Fearing typecasting, Stapleton carefully chose her roles post-All in the Family. She avoided any characters resembling Edith and turned down related commercial offers. Her departure from the show in 1980, as it transitioned into Archie Bunker’s Place, left Archie a widower, marking the end of an era.

Even after the death of her co-star Carroll O’Connor in 2001, Stapleton received letters from fans who believed they were married in real life. Known for her dedication to her craft, Stapleton continued performing even after her husband, William Putch, passed away from a heart attack in 1983. Her resilience and commitment to her work were evident when she went on stage in Syracuse, N.Y., the night of his death and continued with their play’s tour.

Jean Stapleton leaves behind two children, John and Pamela, and a legacy that will be remembered by generations. Her portrayal of Edith Bunker remains a testament to her extraordinary talent, making her an indelible part of television history. As we remember her, we recognize how fortunate we were to have experienced the warmth and joy she brought into our lives through her unforgettable performances.