‘All in the Family’: The ‘Repulsive’ Episode That Left Carroll O’Connor in Tears and Nearly Ended the Series

To hear “All in the Family” creator and producer Norman Lear tell it, working with show star Carroll O’Connor was both a blessing and a curse. The series, which premiered in 1971, became a cultural phenomenon, thanks in large part to O’Connor’s portrayal of Archie Bunker. However, the process of bringing the show to life each week was fraught with tension and conflict, often centered around the show’s scripts.

A Perfect Casting

Norman Lear knew from the moment he saw Carroll O’Connor read for the role of Archie Bunker that he had found the perfect actor. O’Connor’s ability to embody the character with both humor and depth was unparalleled. “He inhabited the character like no one else could,” Lear later remarked. Yet, this same dedication to the role made O’Connor fiercely protective of the character and highly critical of the scripts.

The Episode That Almost Ended It All

The tension between Lear and O’Connor reached a boiling point during the show’s second season. The episode in question, “The Elevator Story,” was particularly contentious. According to Lear’s 2014 memoir, “Even This I Get to Experience,” the episode featured Archie Bunker trapped in an elevator with a diverse group of people, including a pregnant Latina woman, her husband, a classy Black man, and an emotionally fragile woman.

The plot culminates with the pregnant woman going into labor, a scenario that O’Connor found both logistically impractical and dramatically implausible. “It’s a joke!” he reportedly exclaimed. “You know you can’t do that! A baby born on the floor of a goddamn elevator! What’s that all about? I don’t want to talk about this anymore!”

Legal and Emotional Standoff

O’Connor’s objections were not merely artistic; he raised logistical concerns as well. Shooting an entire episode in the confined space of an elevator with five actors seemed impossible to him. His frustration boiled over during the table read, and he declared he would not perform the episode.

The conflict escalated to the point where O’Connor called for an emergency meeting at the office of CBS executive Robert Wood, bringing along his attorney. O’Connor expressed his disdain for the script, calling it “repulsive and unplayable.” Lear, however, stood by his script, resulting in a heated standoff.

“We were at a standoff,” Lear recalled. “In what became a heated argument, every alternative was discussed. There had to be another script we could get ready. Maybe even one without Archie?”

The Breaking Point

The confrontation reached its peak when O’Connor broke down in tears. “Carroll fell to pieces and began to cry,” Lear recounted. “He couldn’t go on, hated the show, couldn’t bear me, and cried to a point that made me realize that this behavior had to end here.”

Despite the emotional turmoil, Lear proceeded to schedule the episode for filming. However, O’Connor did not show up for the shoot. CBS formally advised O’Connor and his representatives that “All in the Family” would be canceled if he did not return.

Resolution and Filming

After further negotiations between the attorneys representing O’Connor and CBS, a compromise was reached, and the show continued. The contentious episode was filmed and eventually aired in 1972.

The Impact of “The Elevator Story”

Despite O’Connor’s initial resistance, “The Elevator Story” turned out to be a pivotal episode. The plot saw Archie Bunker in an unusual situation, surrounded by people he would normally avoid. The birth scene, which O’Connor had found so objectionable, became a moment of profound transformation for the character. Archie’s expressions mirrored the chaos and beauty of the event, and the first cry of the newborn baby caused him to melt, revealing a rare moment of vulnerability and humanity.

“It was a watershed performance,” Lear noted. The episode showcased O’Connor’s exceptional talent and reinforced the show’s ability to tackle complex social issues with humor and heart.

A Legacy of Controversy and Success

“All in the Family” continued to push boundaries and provoke thought throughout its run, thanks in large part to the dynamic between Lear and O’Connor. Their creative clashes, while often tumultuous, resulted in some of the most memorable and impactful television of the era.

O’Connor’s portrayal of Archie Bunker earned him four Emmy Awards and solidified his place in television history. His ability to bring depth to a character that could easily have been a one-dimensional bigot was a testament to his skill as an actor.

Life After Archie

Following the end of “All in the Family” in 1979, O’Connor continued to play Archie Bunker in the spin-off series “Archie Bunker’s Place,” which ran until 1983. While the spin-off never achieved the same level of acclaim as the original series, it allowed O’Connor to further explore the character.

O’Connor’s post-Archie career included a successful stint on the television series “In the Heat of the Night,” where he played Police Chief Bill Gillespie. This role earned him another Emmy Award and demonstrated his versatility as an actor.

The Personal Toll

O’Connor’s personal life was marked by both triumph and tragedy. His marriage to Nancy Fields in 1951 and the birth of their son Hugh brought him great joy. However, the death of Hugh in 1995 from suicide after a long struggle with drug addiction was a devastating blow. O’Connor channeled his grief into advocacy, becoming a vocal proponent for drug awareness and treatment.

Conclusion

The legacy of Carroll O’Connor and “All in the Family” is a complex one, filled with creative highs and personal lows. O’Connor’s portrayal of Archie Bunker remains one of the most iconic performances in television history, a role that challenged audiences and provoked important conversations about race, class, and the American experience.

Norman Lear’s vision, combined with O’Connor’s talent, created a show that continues to resonate with audiences today. The story of their collaboration, marked by both conflict and mutual respect, is a testament to the power of art to reflect and influence society.

In the end, the clashes and controversies behind the scenes only added to the richness of “All in the Family,” making it a show that was not only entertaining but also profoundly impactful. Carroll O’Connor’s journey from skepticism to iconic status is a story of talent, perseverance, and the indelible mark one actor can leave on the world.