Jean Stapleton, the iconic actress best known for her role as Edith Bunker in the 1970s TV sitcom “All In The Family,” left an indelible mark on television history. Her portrayal of the endearing yet submissive housewife earned her three Emmys and two Golden Globe Awards for Best Actress in a Comedy Series. However, behind the scenes, Stapleton’s life was a tapestry woven with both professional triumphs and profound personal losses.
The Role That Defined a Generation
Stapleton’s portrayal of Edith Bunker brought her widespread acclaim, but she was not necessarily fond of her character. In an interview with The New York Times, Stapleton described Edith as a housewife “still in bondage to the male figure, very submissive and restricted to the home.” She expressed hope that most homemakers were not like Edith, highlighting the character’s naivety and limited worldview.
Despite her success, Stapleton grew tired of the role and requested to be written out of the show’s follow-up series, “Archie Bunker’s Place,” after its first season.
A Love Story for the Ages
Stapleton met her husband, William H. Putch, during a theater tour in Maryland. After seeing Stapleton’s play, Putch was taken backstage, and the pair became pen pals before courting for eight years. They married in 1957 and enjoyed a partnership built on mutual respect and shared passion for the arts.
Putch directed the Totem Pole Playhouse, a summer stock theater, for 30 years. He and Stapleton balanced their demanding careers with raising their two children, Pamela, a television producer, and John, an actor, writer, and director.
Facing Life’s Greatest Challenges
The couple’s life took a devastating turn when Putch was diagnosed with cancer of the lymph system. Despite his faith in medical science and participation in an experimental program at the National Institutes of Health, Putch succumbed to a heart attack in November 1983 at the age of 60.
Stapleton, who had always supported her husband’s medical choices, struggled with the immense grief of his sudden loss. She coped by taking life one day at a time, pouring her heart into her work and her children.
A Dedication to the Stage and Beyond
Even after Putch’s death, Stapleton remained dedicated to the Totem Pole Playhouse and her acting career. She continued to perform on stage and in television, always carrying the memory of her husband with her. Her love for the theater was unwavering, and she often dined with friends and family after performances, finding solace in their company.
A Lasting Legacy
Jean Stapleton passed away from natural causes on May 31, 2013, at the age of 90. She was surrounded by friends and family, leaving behind a legacy of remarkable performances and an enduring spirit. Tributes poured in, including a heartfelt message from “All In The Family” creator Norman Lear, who praised her profound lessons on humanity.
Stapleton will always be remembered for her iconic role as Edith Bunker and her numerous stage performances. However, her legacy also includes being a devoted wife and mother who stood by her husband’s side through thick and thin. Her story is one of love, resilience, and the timeless power of the arts.
