A woman who wrote to Jean Stapleton revealed that ”All in the Family” made her husband realize he was being an Archie
It’s only natural for people to see reflections of themselves in television characters. After all, why else would we spend countless hours taking personality quizzes that promise to reveal which sitcom character we most resemble? We’re constantly seeking validation, yearning to find kindred spirits on our screens, to assure ourselves that we are not alone in this world. Sometimes, though, what we see in ourselves can be both familiar and startling.
It’s only natural for people to see reflections of themselves in television characters. After all, why else would we spend countless hours taking personality quizzes that promise to reveal which sitcom character we most resemble? We’re constantly seeking validation, yearning to find kindred spirits on our screens, to assure ourselves that we are not alone in this world. Sometimes, though, what we see in ourselves can be both familiar and startling.
In an interview with The Star-Phoenix, Jean Stapleton, famously known as Edith Bunker, shared an anecdote about a viewer whose husband found the characters on All in the Family hitting a bit too close to home. Stapleton recalled, “One woman wrote to me that her most glorious moment came when her husband, swearing while doing some work in the yard, suddenly stopped and exclaimed, ‘Good grief, I sound just like that Archie on TV.’”
In another interview with the Commercial Appeal-Chicago Daily News Service, Stapleton discussed how All in the Family didn’t need to be heavy-handed with its lessons, unlike an after-school special. She believed the show’s true power lay in its subtler moments.
Stapleton explained, “We don’t try to preach, or change people, or stop bigotry. Our purpose is to be humorous, and we hope that comedy is the best way to get a subtle message across.”